it hurts...
This is very bad. Absolutely disgusting. Somebody confides in you and you without giving a single thought ,go and reveal the secret or the fact which you don't want to share with everyone to not just one but three. :O Now this hurts and I am absolutely disgusted by her freakish act. I mean why do people have such appetite and do not digest things? Why can't they keep things to themselves? Now that makes me think whom should I trust! Absolutely exasperating. I am feeling so sorry for myself. Now that I'll be hesitant to share anything with anybody! Ok. relax...
It so happened that I chose to discuss or tell something [which I don't choose to share here] to a very good friend of mine. Well no doubt I trust her a lot and even she trusted me as well. However I am absolutely depressed at her silly idiotic act. I mean if she was the confidant,how could she ever do this? how? I am not sure if she did it willingly. May be it was her carelessness but then you cannot be such irresposible at all. If you choose to share something with someone and not with everyone and unfortunately it passes to out to somebody who will add spices to it and make things appear as such which would surprise yourself !I I mean never in the wildest of my dreams had I thought of sharing this thing with the other person who is now known to the fact. Simple because I cannot trust her anyway, who keeps making false speeches that you are the best or something or whatever and at the back criticises you. I hate flaterrers and Hypocrites! Hope she[other girl] get that. I was shocked when the other girl made the call to me enquiring!
Ok. things done are done. It is not disturbing that the secret is divulged. It's not that big thing but which has hurt me is that her act of stupidity. I have lost my trust in her! It hurts. it does.Someone whom I trusted so much !! You can never afford to be such careless. That is genuinely freakish. Ridiculous.Whom should one trust? Myself? how sad it is.
Well don't know what I have written above but right now I am quite enraged and have posted it just impulsively to let out "bheje ki steam" !!
It so happened that I chose to discuss or tell something [which I don't choose to share here] to a very good friend of mine. Well no doubt I trust her a lot and even she trusted me as well. However I am absolutely depressed at her silly idiotic act. I mean if she was the confidant,how could she ever do this? how? I am not sure if she did it willingly. May be it was her carelessness but then you cannot be such irresposible at all. If you choose to share something with someone and not with everyone and unfortunately it passes to out to somebody who will add spices to it and make things appear as such which would surprise yourself !I I mean never in the wildest of my dreams had I thought of sharing this thing with the other person who is now known to the fact. Simple because I cannot trust her anyway, who keeps making false speeches that you are the best or something or whatever and at the back criticises you. I hate flaterrers and Hypocrites! Hope she[other girl] get that. I was shocked when the other girl made the call to me enquiring!
Ok. things done are done. It is not disturbing that the secret is divulged. It's not that big thing but which has hurt me is that her act of stupidity. I have lost my trust in her! It hurts. it does.Someone whom I trusted so much !! You can never afford to be such careless. That is genuinely freakish. Ridiculous.Whom should one trust? Myself? how sad it is.
Well don't know what I have written above but right now I am quite enraged and have posted it just impulsively to let out "bheje ki steam" !!
Comments
Such things happen. This is life. Learn lessons, and learn to judge people. I know it's easier said than done, I've been hurt and lost trust myself a no. of times, but sometime later the cycle wd repeat again.
Some of it may be inadvertant. but in any case, make sure u let ur frnd know that wat she did was a mistake, and u didnt like it.
It'll all be fine:)
*take a deep breath* and I am chill :D
hmmm...sigh! me and my gussa :( well it was inadvertant. First time in my life itna jhara use..and she was so depressed at that! anyways..consolation..patched up and she sweared that never ever in life will she disclose anything !! bechari :P...ban gayi mere gusse ka shikaar :((((...no problem but certainly it was a lesson 4 both of us :)
@ moghul..
:O
" I will kill you !"
tum sach mein pagal ho :P:P [kidding]
//I wish I could have witnessed the virago while composing this post :P:P
haan haan. Y not. aakhri wish bhi keh dena hota uss time...would have certainly killed you! :P
oye..don tell me haan..filme dekh dekh kar galat impression mat banao...u guys are no less..in fact leads :P
patched up and I am cool and hopefully she is as well :(
But this is just the beginning...so, don't let these things affect you.
Hope it gets alright soon. :)
I wouldn't like my sister get so carelessly betrayed of some of her little secrets.
Your anger is well justified. Let no one tell you not to be angry.
But, it is a lesson learnt. Remember it. And move on.
(-Smiles-)
Your expectations from her have.
- baba abhinav maharaj ji
It's fine and ok. Everybody's cool and we are done with confessions and apologies and forgiveness! :P
I know it hurts and I was simply annoyed whch is well displayed[even m surpried at reading this post] ...but then koi aur hota toh I would have killed her....she is my best/greatest friend. ..she is regretting but thn things are back to normal...so it's ok :)
@ pradeep k
yah..that's true...that's very correct in fact. No regrets...took a lesson and I hope she'll never have slip of tongue again!
yes i was quite fired at her contrary to my disposition but then it's ok ....every mistake is a lesson and i am damn sure it won't be repeated :)
thanx for visit bro.:)
@ abhinav
dhanya ho maharaj....aapke charan rakhte hi meri kutiya dhanya hui.
abbe tune churaya meri dialouge :O
expectations ..sahi hai...din raat lecture deta hai re...
hasti hoon toh bolta hai sharma rahi ho :)))))))...cartoon character kitna bak bak karta hai re.....tu sach mein mera guru hai....gurudev! jai ho gurudev. :P:P
PS: abey apna kutta khulla mat chod diyo. jus kidding...main all through sochti reh gayi ki main kya boluuu :)))))...maan gayi gurudev.
If it was such a secretish-secret...how could you manage to leak it out to your "trusty" friend...and then think of not getting it leaked further.
Hmmmm...
hahahah....are joker. yeh maun vrat tha :))))) jeeyo mere laal peelay....mast reh. impressing. you are sach mein cute. you are bilkul salman khan types cool...and cool reh... :)
sis :)
Illitrate!!.... :O
well well...i know i shoudn't fire her this way. but kya karoon...u don get enraged when you are calm. spontaneously sab kuch happened...no time to think. well but i thought it was justified....coz of personal reasons ! anyways...
did she?...i thought it was otherwise ! anyways...things are cooled to room temperature..so no tension :)
@alien
hahahah....y do you wonder so much haan !:P
oh ..well it is..i mean it had to be...secret. yes i was but it had to be leaked to her....and she is well....i guess it's difficult to explain without details...better not leak it further :P....
First of all thanks to land on my blog & let me know it's good..thanks!!
so what kind of soothing music you listen to most?!?
Hope to see you again..
Roy
Firstly, I dunno why I jumped to this post of yours, though I know I have quite a no of your latest posts to catch up with.. but itz me.. ulti paida hui hun na :P Basically it was the 'title' which made me read it!!
Anyways.. don't really know wht to say at this coz frankly speaking, I've been on either sides facing situations in life! I've also been ditched & unknowingly I've also hurted my closest of frnds, so I know how it hurts on both sides! In fact once I also snitched intentionally but I had a reason, it was very important for someone's good and I did what I thought best! I didn't hide anything from anyone, I knew I'd done something which was very important for the life of one of my closest friends, for which I had to snitch & break the trust of another close frnd of mine but still I did it coz it was very important.. but.. I was honest enuff to accept the facts before all and also told him that I had done it intentionally coz it was important but at the same time I cannot save myself at that excuse coz I know what I did wid him was wrong!
Its life and all sorta stuff happens here.. M one of the biggest victim to all sorts of emotions in relations, frndships.. Mayb thats Y today am addressed as the 'Loveguru'.. advisor :P
hehehe.. chuck it.. Glad you forgived her & patched up :)
Take care,
Aarti
Quite a long comment.. pata nahi kya bak bak kar gayi main last comment mein! But somehow recently this question of 'How to trust & whom to trust' has come across me many many a times.. one of the most difficult question to answer :|
Anyways, wish you the best in life :)
Take care,
Aarti